Today has been kind of weird. For one thing, the dogs let me sleep until 08:15, which is at least an hour past their feeding time. Two of them act like they are being starved to death and are pretty particular about getting fed in a timely manner. I swear their tummies have a meal-time alarm.
The weather was gray, cold, and rainy this morning, so we didn't do our usual dog playtime because going outside wasn't appealing to any of the creatures, except Stella, who will chase a frisbee in a monsoon, a blizzard. or a heatwave. MT was wandering around waiting for his self-determined departure time of 11:30 to drive to Pocatello. T woke up earlier than usual, and I was puttering around, unsure of what to do with myself .
MT left for Pocatello for a couple of days. T planned to watch two movies at the theaters today, so I had some quiet time coming my way. In my personal journal, I made a list of all the things I could/would do. Did I do any of those things? I mean, yes, kind of, but it's been so haphazard that it just feels like this day was a bit of a waste. I mean, it is 10:30 at night and I'm just writing here now? I truly had all day to write here. Instead, I played games on my phone. I read. I did some drawing, including the little doodle at the top of this post. I took a wee snoozle (that's a little nap in Sandy-speak). I took T to the movie and picked him up, then took him - just now - to the second movie, and I'll pick him up around midnight.
As I was thinking about all of this unproductive time, I decided I was really lucky. It really is okay that I got to fritter this day away. I might not feel that great about it, but there's no harm done. I didn't have anything on my agenda today that had to be done. I don't have to stress about going to bed late tonight because there are no appointments or things that I have to do like go to work.
I really love being retired.
Just because there is nothing on my agenda for tomorrow doesn't mean I mess around unstructured every day. During the week, I do set a loose schedule for myself to stay pleasantly occupied. There are five things I want to do every day: art, write, learn, move, and read. I also have a cleaning schedule. For example, on Monday I clean the bathroom, and on Tuesday I clean the floors. I usually spend an hour or so on my cleaning, and I do a different thing every day, so the house looks presentable and I don't have to do that work on the weekend. I also have what I call project hour every day, though sometimes it is longer than an hour. That's when I do my bookkeeping or go to the grocery store or run errands. I usually wake up between 07:00 to 07:30 when the dogs start getting hungry and I give myself until about 09:30 before I start with my schedule for the day. I try to be done with the Daily 5 and other chores by around 5:30pm so I can make dinner before T goes to work. In the evening I like to watch TV or play games on my phone, whatever, that's my mess-around time.
Anyway...it is a pleasant little life I have, and I like it a lot. I feel really fortunate to be able to be financially independent. MT and I worked hard and took some risks (i.e. rental properties) so that we could retire early. We tell each other pretty much every day how much we like being retired. On Friday, I was pulling weeds in the flower beds and MT was working on the deck. We were outside for a couple of hours, then came in to have home-cooked food for lunch and to read. At one point we just looked at each other and grinned. We are satisfied.
There are a couple of things I am looking forward to doing next week. On Wednesday, MT and I are going to see Gary Clark Jr. He's such a great musician. We try to see him whenever he comes to town. I think this might be my fifth or sixth time to see him. I've seen him at Red Butte three or four times, then at a different venue downtown once. This week he will be at the Eccles Theater. Woooo!
On Friday, I will be at Red Butte volunteering at Garden After Dark. This year's theme is Adventures in Neverland. Yesterday I attended an orientation meeting with other volunteers to get the story overview from the event team manager, then I walked around to see the decorations. The event team always does such an amazing job with Garden After Dark (GAD), and really all the programs they do during the year. GAD is always spectacular, though. I think the whole mania we have with Halloween and decorating amps up this program. I am volunteering just two of the nights of the event because it gets cold up there this time of year, and all the peopling wears me out. LOL
I hope you had a great weekend, and that you have some fun things coming your way to look forward to, also.
xo